Will everyone please stop dating psychos...

Below is an excerpt from an advice column.

"Last spring I met and dated a nice young man, and when he broke up with me a few months later, I was hurt ... I think that the reason that it ended was because I'm kind of a downer, have weird issues with sex, and am generally a bit hateful."

My question is how did a hateful, wet blanket of a person with weird sexual issues get a boyfriend, unless her main sexual issue was nymphomania that is.